Why does everyone think that during sex the penis always has to end up in the vagina? It works perfectly well without penetration!
This text comes from the stern archive and first appeared in January 2023.
For most people, penetration is the holy grail of sexuality. The penis has to go into the vagina, the eel into the pleasure cave, the ball into the goal… otherwise it’s not sex.
I’ll tell you a secret: I won’t! We haven’t had penetrative sex for a while. At first it was because I wasn’t able to get wet anymore. I put so much pressure on myself, I was so afraid that I would be a desert again instead of an oasis, that it robbed me of my desire.
So one day we just stopped. Not sex, that is, but traditional intercourse. But instead of losing anything, we surprisingly gained a lot. Creativity, freedom, curiosity. After more than ten years, our lovemaking had drowned in the perfect flow. Both knew exactly what had to happen and when so that the ball would go into the goal – and everyone would shout hallelujah.
That was nice, but not as exciting as a football match where it is already clear that Bayern Munich will be champions again. Or Heidi Klum says: “I don’t have a photo for you today”. Yawn. So now it’s no longer penetration, but disruption. Everything back to zero. Everything from the beginning. So what do you do when the previous roadmap is now full of blank spots?
Source: Stern
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