Every relationship is individual and can endure different failures. But a study found out which seven deadly sins most often cause a partnership to fail.
After a failed relationship, one often wonders why the love broke up. But there are at least seven common mistakes that many affiliates make. This has now been confirmed by a study by the Fittkau & Maass Institute and the online dating portal Elitepartner. For the survey, 4173 couples were asked about their trigger points within a relationship. The participants were between 18 and 69 years old and yet the results were very clear.
There are behaviors in a partnership that are a no-go almost everywhere and a deadly sin for love:
Ignore the other after the argument (50%)
Humans are fundamentally in need of harmony and want to quickly find a solution even after a difference of opinion with their partner. However, if one is ignored, it is immensely frustrating and very insulting. It also artificially prolongs the conflict.
Make important decisions alone (44%)
compromises and future planning are the be-all and end-all in a relationship. However, if one of the two plans to go it alone, this leads to a conflict in almost half of all partnerships.
Shouting or yelling during an argument (39%)
Still yelling like a toddler in an argument as an adult? Absolutely explosive behavior for a partnership. You should learn to take better control of yourself.
Relationship problems often arise from women’s gossip
Discuss intimacies and conflicts with others (25%)
Women in particular can put this point of conflict on the list. Men are less prone to discussing every detail of the partnership with friends. On the contrary, this is a point that drives many men crazy when it comes to their partner.
Not replying to messages all day (25%)
The dear ghosting of messages, a quarter of all assigned people it annoys like hell when their messages are ignored over a longer period of time. You keep checking your phone and getting angrier by the hour. It gets really bad when the partner is always online in Messenger, but still doesn’t answer.
Throw things or slam doors during an argument (23%)
Similar to verbal freaking out, behaviors like this don’t get anyone anywhere. It doesn’t cause arguments, doesn’t exude dominance and is just unnecessarily stressful for the relationship.
Having more time for hobbies than for their partner (19%)
If the partner in the relationship does not have a high priority and is continuously put on the back burner, this often leads to conflicts. It makes the relationship feel insecure and that creates even bigger problems. Often triggered by recurring criticism talks.
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