Oliver Pocher posts an emotional post on Instagram for Amira’s birthday

Oliver Pocher and his wife Amira Pocher announced their separation at the end of August. Since then, the comedian has been fighting openly for the mother of his two youngest sons. For her 31st birthday this Thursday (September 28th), he published a surprisingly emotional and personal post on Instagram.

“Dear Amira, I’ve been wishing you a happy birthday here, on the superficial Instagram (and, for everyone, very old-school Facebook) for the last few years, and I’ll do the same this year, probably for the last time. You shouldn’t change traditions,” begins he his message. “Now I’m sitting alone at home without you. What a year you’ve had. Unfortunately, last year I didn’t manage to give you what you hoped for from me. At some point the point has come where you “You no longer felt love for me. Where the happiness of the family, health and a fulfilling job were no longer enough to make you happy. I failed as a spouse,” he sums up the current situation ruefully.

Oliver Pocher didn’t want to break up with Amira

In view of the many achievements mentioned, which they achieved more or less together, he emphasizes the strong teamwork in the Pocher house until the separation: “I had the feeling that we were strongest as a team, but feelings are just not reality ( and no Helene Fischer song),” he writes.

“I would have liked to have remained your partner by your side for a long time, but accepting that is the most difficult part of the end of this relationship for me. I understood it painfully and will (have to) accept it,” adds the comedian.

In addition to a more classic “I wish you all the best and that you will find what you are looking for in the new year and phase of your life”, he also brings up a possible successor: “Maybe someone else will do it better and make you happier. It would be “I want to wish you because I got to know (and love) you as a cheerful, happy person. Our two wonderful boys will remind us of what we once loved about each other. Happy Birthday,” said Pocher.

But Pocher wouldn’t be Pocher if he didn’t add a bittersweet joke here too, and so he ends his birthday greeting with an allusion to the time he met Amira. “PS: When is the right time to reactivate your Tinder profile, even though someone like you doesn’t exist a second time…!?” asks Pocher. The 45-year-old posted ten souvenir photos alongside the loving lines: two from the wedding, two with their children, a baby bump photo, one from their Wendler parody times, one behind the “Let’s Dance” scenes, vacation photos and a shared backstage photo. Photo with musician Xavier Naidoo – this probably includes his final comment: “PSS: Xavier Naidoo can now go on tour again! That’s enough of the time off…”

Oliver Pocher’s followers are touched by the posting

Pocher’s followers say they are deeply touched by the news. You can read comments like these: “Many people wouldn’t have expected you to have so much love and open words, we looked right into your heart for the first time.” Or: “Great words and very brave to show yourself so vulnerable. I hope Amira knows what she had in you.” Or: “Wow, I’ve rarely heard such beautiful words from you. And you notice how honest they are and how painful they hurt… it’s really such a shame. And your PS. Just too sweet.” Or: “Am I the only one who has the feeling that Amira is/was really the love of his life, with whom he arrived and with whom he seriously wanted to grow old and shriveled up?! That really breaks your heart.” Or simply: “I’m going to cry now, ciao,” to which many reply “I’m coming with you.”

“Bauer sucht Frau” star Anna Heiser has also already read the post and wrote: “You love her…” “Ex-Bachelor” Andrej Mangold commented: “Very genuine and lovingly written. I’m honest: I would have liked it from you Never expected in this form and especially publicly, all the stronger. I hope the pain goes away and you will soon see why it should happen like this. All the best to you and see you soon.” Former skier Maria Höfl-Riesch remarked: “I wouldn’t have thought that Oliver Pocher would make me cry. You’ll get heartbreak yourself. Maybe something will happen again, I’m keeping my fingers crossed.”

The Pochers separated after seven years and two sons together

After seven years of relationship, four of them married, and two children together, the Pochers separated. The first rumors emerged in June. They confirmed the end of the marriage in a podcast episode at the end of August. “It’s time to educate people. […] We thought this was probably the best way to say it. We’re separated. That’s it,” Amira Pocher told her fans at the time. Oliver Pocher revealed that he didn’t want to separate. “But now the situation is the way it is, and then you have to accept it and see what happens next,” said the comedian.

Since then, he has never missed a public opportunity to remember the beautiful and loving times. Amira Pocher doesn’t seem to be unmoved by the separation either; there are always tears during joint podcast recordings.