Oliver Pocher is publicly fighting for Amira – a right step

If Oliver Pocher removes the irony from his written or spoken words and only speaks of his love for his wife, then Germany knows that he is not doing well.

Amira turned 31 on September 28th. Just a few weeks ago, Oliver Pocher and his wife Amira announced that they had separated. After seven years of relationship and almost four years of marriage. Their wedding anniversary is also on October 19th – but it could be the last. Oliver Pocher addressed his wife on Instagram with emotional words. Anyone who knows Pocher and follows his words on Instagram and in the podcast “Die Pochers” knows that Oliver Pocher hates public displays of affection and he likes even less to spread too much private information on social media.

It is all the more worth mentioning that he now puts aside his often over-the-top humor and opens his heart to the world. For one thing, he’s not the comedian who makes fun of everything and everyone, but the broken man who has lost the love of his life: “Now I’m sitting alone at home without you,” he writes, on her birthday. He admits his mistakes, saying he failed to give her what she hoped for last year. He seems thoughtful, he seems desperate.

Amira is apparently Oliver Pocher’s great love

“I would have liked to have remained your partner at your side for a long time, but accepting that is the most difficult part of the end of this relationship for me,” writes Pocher. Even the fans and friends like presenter Elton can hardly accept that the power couple should go their separate ways. He writes under the posting: “You have to soften up and think carefully again. All the best, you two.”

And I find it difficult to accept that too. When Oliver Pocher puts himself on the same level as the influencers he hates, then it means a lot. Together, Amira and Oliver Pocher seemed to me like a couple that was authentic and on equal terms. In the podcast they said jokes to each other, she was in no way inferior to him, they went through ups and downs, even publicly, and were often annoyed with each other in the podcast. Simply wonderfully normal, as it is in most marriages and relationships. There should be more of these types of relationships.

Why? Because we live in a disposable dating society. Hardly anyone wants to commit to something, everyone is looking for the ideal partner, and at the slightest crisis they are thrown out. Nothing that I want to accuse the Pochers of, I wasn’t lying under the sofa and don’t know what really led to the separation – but precisely because they sometimes got on each other’s nerves and pulled themselves together only to laugh again shortly afterwards, they are one Kind of a role model for many. No, a marriage and relationship doesn’t always have to be ideal, but isn’t one of the most important things that you can laugh together and admit your mistakes?

Oliver Pocher publicly dropped his pants. This time not at one of his nude dances. I’m willing to bet that this was worse for the influencer enemy than jumping around naked on TV. With the reservation that I don’t hope that the reason for the separation was a huge no-go, which is not known to the public, I appeal: “Dear Amira, sometimes it’s worth fighting for love. After a low, there can also be a high again come.”