Although it may seem like a party to celebrate with our loved ones, there are those who have differences with those close to them and find it difficult to coexist.
The Christmas represents a party where the happiness and the Union They take a great role. However, there may be cases in which there are differences between family members. For this, we give you some tips to enjoy the partiesdespite the disagreements.
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Christmas: tips to survive family dinner
Find a task to do
If you’re busy helping to prepare the dinner, set the table either solve some issue at home, you are less likely to be involved in uncomfortable conversations with some familiar. Arrive early and ask what you can help with. If you are in someone else’s house, act like host or, better yet, be the host if possible. The goal is to spend the night dedicated to some task to avoid arguments or detailed explanations about your life.
Accept what cannot be changed
You family It is how it has been since before we were born. You may have relatives with opinions difficult to accept. You’re not alone; many face similar situations in their families. Despite any discussion, it is unlikely that you will be able to change their ideasand you don’t have to.
Have the generosity Necessary for accept your family members with their opinionseven if they are problematicinstead of entering conflicts with them. However, do not allow yourself to be lacking I respect. Set clear and respectful boundaries can be key to maintaining a harmonious atmosphere during the holidays.
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have an ally
You can ally yourself with that one cousin that whenever you get along and try to get through the night together, or even invite a friend. The dynamics familiar It usually changes when there is external people (as friends) present, showing themselves kinder and less incisive. Take advantage of your good manners family in your favor by bringing someone you want to impress or at least make feel welcome.
Take refuge in food
Take refuge in food or other activities shared can be a good strategy . Find common ground instead of highlighting the differences, and if you family tends to be competitive, turn that into something playful. Propose games or activities that allow them to stand out from fun way and without hurting anyone. The idea is to channel competitive energy in a positive and less conflictive way.
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Family parties: how to have a good festive atmosphere
Offer help
Arriving early to dinner and asking how you can help is an effective strategy. Even better, consider offering the dinner in your house, assuming the role of host. Make sure everyone are comfortable, have drinks and enjoy the meal It will allow you to deal with the evening and conversations in a more positive way.
Avoid drinking excessive alcohol
Consume alcohol in moderation It is importantsince the excess can have negative effects on social interaction. Excessive drinking can increase irritability and the sensitivity, which could negatively affect the festive atmosphere. Maintaining a balance and being aware of your limits when consuming alcohol will help the celebration run more harmoniously and avoid possible conflicts.
Source: Ambito
I am an author and journalist who has worked in the entertainment industry for over a decade. I currently work as a news editor at a major news website, and my focus is on covering the latest trends in entertainment. I also write occasional pieces for other outlets, and have authored two books about the entertainment industry.
