If there is no desire for sex, many people resort to attractive means. Our star-Columnist Tina Molin explains what actually brings much more.
Okay, I’m about to jump in the door. We also have phases of listlessness. I then fantasize about play parties, threesomes and new toys that I want to experience with my husband. I dream that things will be as passionate, wicked and wild again as they were when we first got to know each other. Where sex felt like a wild ride and we were open to lots of crazy things.
Many couples are like us. As soon as sex dies down, the adventure should give you a new kick. New toys are bought, porn is streamed, sexy underwear is bought, a cock ring is purchased or a couple’s toy that can be vibrated with a remote control. Everything is great, right and super cool, but…
To be honest, it was too tiring for me. I felt pressured. And somehow manipulated too. Need to watch porn to get going? Have to buy sexy underwear because otherwise there won’t be a fire? Going to the swingers club even though it means stress for me and I have to deal with fears of loss and failure? I didn’t find it so hot now.
A sexual journey of exploration
I asked myself: There must be another way, after so many years together, without having to constantly stimulate the nervous system?
Source: Stern
I am an author and journalist who has worked in the entertainment industry for over a decade. I currently work as a news editor at a major news website, and my focus is on covering the latest trends in entertainment. I also write occasional pieces for other outlets, and have authored two books about the entertainment industry.
