Shame during sex: Tina Molin knows what helps with self-doubt

Shame during sex: Tina Molin knows what helps with self-doubt

A lot of things can get in the way of your own desire. Also star-Columnist Tina Molin knows this feeling. Here she explains how sex can be more fun and honest.

Don’t worry, this isn’t going to be a “10 best tips for blow jobs” column. I don’t think that helps because the problem is completely different: too many emotions.

Let me elaborate. I grew up in a conservative home. Funnily enough, not when it comes to sex. My dad was very open about it and enlightened me when I was 15 years old. He had no emotions such as shame, disgust or taboos around the topic of sex. He thought that I should let off steam and try things out.

What luck for my sexual development! However, I realize that I am the big exception. Many women feel ashamed when the topic of sex comes up. Or about certain practices: They find “blowjobs” disgusting, they don’t want to be licked or are afraid of anal sex. That’s totally fine. But “10 tips for anal” doesn’t help either, because the problem lies deeper.

Source: Stern

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