Sex over 40
Sex is also possible without penetration – as it can be so much nicer for both partners
Why does everyone think that sex always ends with the penis ending up in the vagina? It also works wonderfully without penetration!
This text comes from the stern archive and first appeared in January 2023.
For most people, penetration is the holy grail of sexuality. The penis has to go into the vagina, the eel into the pleasure cave, the ball into the goal… otherwise it’s not sex.
I’ll tell you a secret now: I won’t! We haven’t had penetrative sex for a while. At first it was because getting wet wasn’t working for me anymore. I then put so much pressure on myself, was afraid that I would be a desert again instead of an oasis, that it robbed me of my desire.
So one day we just left it alone. So not sex, but classic sexual intercourse. But instead of losing something, we surprisingly gained a lot. Namely creativity, freedom, curiosity. After more than ten years, our lovemaking was drowned in perfect flow. Both knew exactly what had to be done and when to get the ball into the goal – and everyone would shout hallelujah.
That was nice, but as exciting as a football game where it is already clear: Bayern Munich will be champions again. Or Heidi Klum says: “I don’t have a photo for you today.” Gaww. So now it’s no longer penetration, but disruption. Everything to zero. Everything at the beginning. So what do you do if the previous roadmap now consists of blank spots?
Source: Stern
I am an author and journalist who has worked in the entertainment industry for over a decade. I currently work as a news editor at a major news website, and my focus is on covering the latest trends in entertainment. I also write occasional pieces for other outlets, and have authored two books about the entertainment industry.
