Column: Sex over 40
Good sex is a matter of attitude – this is how it works
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Our author collects messages from women whose sex lives remain creative. Here she shares insights into how couples can reinvent themselves again and again.
“What often upsets me is this basic assumption that you can no longer have (or good) sex in a long relationship anyway!” a reader wrote to me last week.
She is not one of the “doldrum women”, has three children, has been with her husband for 27 years and has “actually always (!) fantastically beautiful sex” with her partner.
But what makes this woman different, I asked myself. Why does she feel like it despite “Duration of the relationship, pregnancies, breastfeeding, periods of stress, physical changes”how she writes?
This question is really bothering me right now. Why do some women have a great sex life despite all of life’s adversities and other women struggle with low libido?
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I am an author and journalist who has worked in the entertainment industry for over a decade. I currently work as a news editor at a major news website, and my focus is on covering the latest trends in entertainment. I also write occasional pieces for other outlets, and have authored two books about the entertainment industry.