Anna and Gerald Heiser: Couples therapy is supposed to help

The “Bauer sucht Frau” stars Anna (34) and Gerald Heiser (39) want to fight for their relationship. “We decided to do couples therapy,” they announced on Instagram. “For us. For our children. For our family”, . She also publishes a short clip in which he stands alone in front of a huge mountain of straw. Then she comes over, takes his hand and they both smile.

There is a lot of support for this decision in the comments. “I think it’s great that you want to do this together,” you can read. Or: “A great decision. I hope with all my heart that everyone realizes for themselves what they can do differently.” Another user writes: “You can do it. I love you.”

It could mean a turnaround, because the marriage of Namibian farmers seems to be in a deep crisis, as Anna Heiser reported on Instagram at the beginning of December. She wrote openly about the couple’s problems. In the post, she explained that the phrase “We’re losing ourselves” has been floating around in her head for weeks: “It’s a phrase I could never have imagined feeling – and yet it describes our reality.” She also shared a photo with her husband in which the two of them kiss.

The Polish native, who emigrated to Africa for love, added in her post: “I’ve been sharing my/our life here for years and will no longer pretend to be an ideal world. No, Gerald and I haven’t separated (yet), But there is a deep rift in our relationship.” Her post went on to say that on their journey together to make a dream come true, “we lost ourselves as a couple. We didn’t even notice…”

And what does Gerald Heiser say about that? He also has an Instagram account. There are countless photos and videos of happy family moments between the two of them and their two children. Most recently he posted a funny clip in which the parents dance in front of a Christmas tree in the living room with a child in their arms. “The best Xmas parties as parents”, .

Anna and Gerald Heiser met on the RTL show “Bauer sucht Frau”. In 2017, the couple met in the 13th season of the dating format. Gerald Heiser was the first participant in the show’s history from Africa. The wedding followed in Poland in 2018 and again a few weeks later in his home country of Namibia.

The couple lives on the Namibian farm with their son Leon, who was born at the end of January 2021, and their daughter Alina, who was born at the end of November 2022.