Valentine It is an emblematic date in which couples celebrate with emotion and take the opportunity to enjoy a totally romantic moment. But, What about single people and who still don’t have their “half orange”? Although the February 14 is considered Valentine’s Dayit is also an opportunity to get to meet new people, since the love It can appear at any moment.
One of those spaces where it can be linked to others is that of the “Speed Dating”a popular and famous fast dating event that consists in meeting several people in a short period of time. At present, this experience of blind meetings with strangers again gather strength since “we are living a Post pandemic digital saturationand those who yearn for authentic and significant connections also understand that sometimes there are less “emotional security guarantees” in the digital world, “he explains Masnatta Melinaentrepreneur, consultant, speaker and specialist in education, technology and diversity.
Encounters of this type adapt to all needs: from those people looking of friends and acquaintances. In this way, the experience of “Speed Dating” It offers the opportunity to open up to a new world of people who are in the same tune. Within the range of possibilities and alternatives, we share a Selection of spaces that provide these types of appointments to generate interaction with strangers.
Valentine’s Day: places and alternatives to meet people with the “spered dating”
He came with Chamuyo
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Came with Chamuyo – Trova Bar
The need for alternatives and plans that connect us in person again are a reality. “Came with Chamuyo “ It is a proposal created by influencer Candelaria Zambranawhich is based on a encounter between people in a bar, with the intention of having a glass of wine, relax, leave their comfort zone and break that shell of meeting new people. The project arose together with Mateo Martínezcreative director and partner of Trova barthe place where the event is held today.
The idea arose from a video that published in social networkswhere he stated that many people complained not to be a couple or not having an ideal appointment, but that he did nothing to generate those situations. Fear, insecurity, exposure and comfort predominate many times as main limitations To meet people. In that context, the creator of He came with Chamuyo He maintains that “the worst thing that can happen is to lose a couple of hours with a person, chat for a while and think that you would not repeat that situation again, Not serious”
What is wine dynamics with Chamuyo?
At the beginning of the event, the creator performs a Brief introduction about what “came with Chamuyo” and some keys for people to enjoy it to the fullest. The space has cards that are distributed all over the place with fun questions to break the tension and Decontracting the environmentsuch as: “What is your ideal morning?”, “What would you cook me on a first date?”, “What do you like, the beach or the mountain?” The idea is that the questions work as triggers To generate conversations, groups and talks, where the meetings are not only in order to meet a future “half orange”, but also to make friends or any Type of link May the participate be looking for.
“It seems that people You want to connect from one more side of funtranquility and something fresh, and not so much from the serious, ”says Cande as the main proposal to his followers. For all who are encouraged to live a new and different experience, the most important information To take into account is as follows:
- Location: The last event was held in Trova Bar, in Honduras 5903, Palermo, and will start organizing it in different places and spaces.
- Tickets: To attend the event, you must first write down and acquire the entry that is available in an Instagram link and that, so far, the value includes the entrance to the place and a glass of wine, which can be changed by another consumption.
- Dates: The main dynamic consists of making events every 15 days. For this 2025, Candelaria projects to expand to other provinces and places to take to Chamuyo to all corners and expand its principles to go out to have fun, have a good glass of wine and simply have a good time.
Magic Club
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Magic Club
The city hides great places, where rapid and novel appointments that break with all structures are trend. Magic Cluba rest-club from the Caballito neighborhood, stands out for being one of the spaces that maintain the firm tradition of the “Speed Dating “ through the organization of events that revolve around that dynamic. With some mystery and privacy in their ads, they offer a Simple private experience so that people connect in an exclusive and fun environment.
What is the dynamics of “spee dating”?
In the event, people will be distributed in two either Three rooms with tableswhere each participant will rotate through all the tables in rounds of five minutes, that will end when a bell sounds. The main objective is to be able to break the entrance ice and begin to meet better among the participants.
The rooms and tables will have leaves where participants can write down the Name of each person with which they interacted and spoke. At the end of the meeting, they can mark those they would like to see again to continue the conversation.
In the case of doing Match, The next day from Magic Club will communicate with Who coincided and will offer a Special discount To return to the club with that person. Key data to be taken into account for this “Speed Dating” option:
- Night agenda: Both and after the quick appointment event, people can relax and get comfortable in the club to enjoy good food, drink and play pool or ping pong.
- Schedules: The previous Speed Dating begins at 20, at 21:15 the rapid appointments begin, and the post starts at 22:15.
- Input value: The event has a value of $ 30,000, includes the entrance to the place and 1 classic cocktail.
- Dates: The next to do is this Thursday, February 13. On their website they announce the different days organized by fast dates and purchase options.
- Address: Caballito, English neighborhood (the complete location is known when buying the entrance).
Valentine’s Single: How to overcome fear and encourage “Speed Dating”
Many times there are certain barriers, Fears and insecurities When exposing yourself to this type of plans. The constant stimulation of technology through screens, with the permanent consumption of content of the social networks In the day to day, “reconfigured the way we interact, prioritizing immediacy and extreme customization that, in many cases, displaces the construction of authentic and deep links, ”said Masnatta.
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Masnatta Melina
After a large period of insulation time by the Covid-19 pandemic, together with the increase and excessive consumption of social networks, “the”Technological dependence and the immediacy which promotes the artificial intelligence They can make them linked to other humans seems too much Emotionally expensiveeroding the quality and depth of our relationships, ”explains Masnatta, while maintaining that this process weakens the social fabric and affects our Emotional well -beingsince “we lose the opportunity to connect authentically”
To be able to break with the expectations and the insecurity that sometimes generate these dates, with projections of “Perfect relationships”, The specialist affirms that the key is to be able to cultivate genuine links“ instead of losing ourselves in a career to accumulate superficial interactions. Although today, it is part of what is most celebrated socially: number of followers and likes, we are hyperconnected solitudes”
Some Key tools that Masnatta shares to be able to encourage these meetings are:
- Establish limits with devices: Determine specific schedules for the consumption of social networks and reserve a large period of time for real meetings and situations that connect us face to face with another person.
- Enhance communication: Being able to work and strengthen communicative skills is a fundamental step. “Social networks often expose us only to points of view similar to ours, which can reinforce prejudices and isolate us ideologically,” said the specialist. To counteract that, it is essential to deposit energy in exposing us to different environments and ideas to ours.
- Cultivate self -awareness: It is very important to make an interior observation to establish healthy limits, face different perspectives, improve our link with technology and the use we give to social networks. “Although technology can facilitate contact, the real connection is built in the authenticity and presence of the real world,” concludes Masnatta.
Source: Ambito
I am an author and journalist who has worked in the entertainment industry for over a decade. I currently work as a news editor at a major news website, and my focus is on covering the latest trends in entertainment. I also write occasional pieces for other outlets, and have authored two books about the entertainment industry.
