I invite you to read my latest article on goals and approach to create the project you want. Do you dare to take the reins to achieve what you want?
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Learn how to create the company or business of your dreams
I often hear, in my consultancies, from people who create the life, job or business they can, leaving aside what they really want. The reason? They build from today, from their starting point, in short, from that place where they no longer want to be. When we create the future with the focus on the starting line, we start at a disadvantage because, without realizing it, we are limiting ourselves. So what is the way?
When we want to achieve a goal, it is best to visualize what we want, as well as investigate our purpose. What drives you to want to achieve that goal? get away from “what they expect of me” or “what I have to do” and connect with what we want in the depths of our being. However, it is very common that, even knowing where we want to go, we continue to focus on where we started from, where we no longer want to be or, sometimes, we even want to run away. There is no way to find the exit if we look back, instead of focusing on the finish line.
When we go from smallest to largest -that is, we start from the “today I can do this, I will grow until I reach the goal”– we are creating what we can, that which circumstances, beliefs and context allow us and that, at the same time, limit us. When we think big, we visualize what we want and we manage to see the successful result, we begin to create from what we want, from our goal.
I will tell you with a simple and clear example. If you are participating in a car race and you are driving your car at maximum speed, the only way to reach the finish line is to focus 100% on looking ahead. Why? If you look back, to the point from which you started or to the sides, you deviate from the road or crash before reaching your destination.
That is why I always say that you have to look at the goal, because when we build from what we want, we do it in line with our desire, without deviating. In this way, we can go a wonderful way to discover our capabilities, energy and drive. This applies to businesses, companies, professional careers or even relationships or bonds. When we are really clear about what we want, we no longer negotiate with what we can, what touches us, or with what limits us.
It’s time to make yourself aware of your goal and go for it!
To take advantage of the fact that the year has just begun (although you can take charge of your goals 365 days a day) I want to give you a practical example of the path that I invite you to follow to reach that goal you want.
The first thing is to identify what you want, that ideal state for you. For example: “I want to be the next CEO of the company”, “I want to be the next project leader” or “I want to undertake and be successful @”. It is very important that you visualize yourself in that situation 100% concrete and that you can take note of how you feel there, who is with you, what clothes you are wearing, what perfumes you feel in the environment. The more details you can visualize, the better!
After that visualization, I answered: what do I need to reach that ideal state? It is important that you focus on that goal and avoid thinking about what you can do today. Forget today! I answered without limitations. Possible answers: I need English classes, learning to speak in public, training in resource management, learning to lead a team, etc.
The next thing is to think about what you are going to do to achieve all that, set a realistic goal of time and deadlines and create that place you want to get to! Think about what you have to do (and what you have to stop doing) from now on to reach your goal. Also think about what obstacles may be presented to you and how you can overcome them, in case they appear. Even think if you are going to need help, what kind and from whom.
Visualize big, plan according to your goal and desire, always have what you want in sight, and ask yourself all this again every time you reach those small goals that you set on your way and that help you reach your goal. .
I accompany you to create the company, professional career, business or life you want. You just need a decision and you know what? That decision is solely up to you. What are you waiting for?
Graduate and Professor of Communication UBA, and Professional Ontological Coach.
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