Amira Pocher: The most exciting statements from her new podcast “Liebes Leben”

“I’m looking forward to the new man in my podcast life”: With these words Amira Pocher begins the first episode of her new podcast “Liebes Leben” (exclusively at Podimo), which she is now doing together with her brother Ibrahim Aly, known as Hima. A new episode appears every Tuesday.

In one Instagramstory, Amira Pocher revealed that her podcast’s debut had to be recorded twice because “I said too much, which is not good.” “You can see that I don’t get involved in provocations, that I don’t want to play balls back and forth. That I would just like to end everything harmoniously and that’s why it would have been far too much. I wanted to avoid that,” she tells her followers.

Oliver Pocher has recently spoken publicly several times about the breakdown of his marriage and hardly left a good thing about his estranged wife. In her podcast, Amira Pocher describes personally for the first time how she has experienced the past few weeks and months. Although this is apparently a “toned down” podcast version, the 31-year-old speaks Tacheles. Five points are particularly exciting.

1. The Pochers have been separated for a long time

After weeks of rumors about a marital crisis, Oliver and Amira Pocher confirmed their separation in their podcast “Die Pochers” at the end of August. It is time to educate people, said Amira Pocher. It became clear that the separation came from her. “I didn’t want to separate. But now the situation is the way it is, and then you have to accept it and see what happens next,” said Oliver Pocher. In her own podcast, Amira Pocher now makes it clear that Before has not only failed in the last few weeks. “II’ve been separated for a long time. Surprise! Officially for two or three months. Unofficially you can imagine that you don’t break up overnight and then call the ‘Bild’ newspaper straight away. Something like this is a long process and of course the public doesn’t know that,” she says in a conversation with her brother.

2. Amira Pochers provided the impetus for changes Mother

Amira Pocher describes a vacation on Crete that took place last year after her 30th birthday as a “turning point.” Her mother Mirjam was also there on the trip, reports Amira Pocher. A conversation with her got her thinking. “Amira, you’ve changed so drastically. You’re so negative. The way you speak, you’re vulgar. I don’t know you like that. That’s not you.” At first she didn’t want to believe her mother’s words, but then she realized: “She’s right.” Amira’s brother confirms his mother’s impressions. The way his sister and Oliver Pocher communicated and treated each other was difficult for him to understand, says Hima Aly, without giving any details. Amira Pocher reveals that she decided after the conversation with her mother: “I don’t want to be like that anymore. I can’t do that anymore. I’m dealing with more positive things. That was the beginning of my rebirth. That was the process I went through over the last year.”

3. Oliver Pocher’s Instagram postings

For Amira’s birthday at the end of September, Oliver Pocher published a series of private photos on his Instagram page and wrote a kind of love letter to his wife. “I would have liked to have remained your partner at your side for a long time, but accepting that is the most difficult part of the end of this relationship for me. I have painfully understood it and will (have to) accept it,” wrote Pocher and admitted, “as Spouse “failed”. On the couple’s fourth wedding anniversary in October, Oliver Pocher published another emotional post on Instagram. “When your iPhone flashback gets you down,” he captioned a series of private snaps.

Regarding Pocher’s attempts to publicly fight for the marriage, Amira says in her podcast that there is a difference between an Instagram post and real life. “Just because a man made a post twice and wrote a few lines about it, which of course touched me… But they would have touched me even more if they had come in person. But nothing ever came in person. I think so “The whole time: If Olli had invested so much strength and power and fought as hard for our marriage as he does now for his own profit and to make me look completely stupid, then we would still be together.”

Regarding Pocher’s posting, in which he suddenly announced the end of the joint podcast, Amira says: “I would never have expected such a wave to be unleashed based on mere allegations. What was of course the trigger was Olli’s desire to end the podcast. It was already said before, but it fit perfectly into this slot to fuel it again. This is a complete mystery to me.”

4. The headlines of the past few weeks

Amira Pocher makes it clear that the past few weeks have not left her without a trace. “The last two weeks were, I don’t want to say the most difficult weeks of my life, but they were top three. That was really intense. After these two weeks I not only have a few bite wounds on my tongue, but also several knife wounds in my back. That upset and exhausted me the most. I have reached my limits physically and mentally. “It wasn’t nice,” she admits. However, interpersonal factors hurt her more than the headlines. She makes it clear that she is disappointed in people in her circle of friends and acquaintances, without naming names.

“I care about the people around me. I care about the man with whom I brought two children into the world. I care about other parties who are just sitting in my chair right now, without me too “To have spoken just one word beforehand – or to have asked me how I was doing. Or the people who simply didn’t get in touch at all. It’s really amazing,” says Amira Pocher.

Oliver Pocher lashed out at his estranged wife Amira in several interviews, attesting to her lack of “emotional maturity” to deal with the situation. He now continues his podcast under the name “The Pochers – freshly recycled” with his first wife Alessandra Meyer-Wölden. Amira and Oliver Pocher as well as Alessandra Meyer-Wölden were considered a model patchwork family. The comedian has five children from his two marriages. Amira and Alessandra Meyer-Wölden were also friends. Amira has now unfollowed both Oliver Pocher and Meyer-Wölden on Instagram. In the social media world, a clear sign that it’s over.

5. The allegations that Amira only took advantage of Oliver Pocher

Her own TV shows, her own podcast, her own beauty company: Amira Pocher has cleverly used her time alongside Oliver Pocher to build up lucrative businesses. In her podcast, she denies that this was a calculation from the start. “For two years, I walked through the kitchen at events while he walked the red carpet. I was smuggled through the cloakroom and we weren’t allowed to sit next to each other at the table. I hid,” Amira Pocher remembers the beginnings of the relationship. It wasn’t she who decided to actively go public, but Oliver Pocher. He encouraged her to perform with him in front of the camera. “I don’t regret it . I’m incredibly grateful and I never thought I would enjoy it so much.”

But none of this was planned by her. “If you were to read our marriage contract, you would know exactly what I was aiming for: love. I didn’t want any money, I didn’t want a community of gains, I didn’t want any real estate from him, I didn’t want anything. I just wanted this marriage and to live it happily.” Amira Pocher says with tears: “Of course I loved him. I brought two children into the world with this man and I married him.” The fact that some would doubt the authenticity of her feelings hurts her greatly.

At the end of her podcast, Amira Pocher denies that there is a new person in her life. “The only new person in my life is myself. I have completely rediscovered myself and found myself again. The new Amira,” she says – but also admits that she is looking forward to butterflies in her stomach again and is ready for them Love.

Sources: Podimo podcast “Dear Life”