Increased probability
Four signs that you stay single forever
A life as a single, and that forever? From a scientific point of view, there should be certain characteristics that have an increased probability that you stay alone.
“There is a lid for every pot” – it is not entirely true, because researchers have found that people with certain properties remain single.
If you have the desire to find a partner as a single and complete one date after the other, but somehow it doesn’t really work with a steady relationship, then this could be due to your own personality. The psychologist Mark Travers reports on “Psychology Today” which characteristics make a person a long-term single, without being aware of it.
With these four properties you stay single
Children’s wars have no priority in life
Most people want to start their own family at some point in life. So if you do not feel the desire for children, the search for a suitable partner automatically makes it difficult. However, there are also couples who decide against young people. According to studies, people without children should experience a higher level of “feelings of happiness at the moment”, while parents experience more thoughtful happiness or an increased feeling of fulfilling life. Research also shows that it is more important for life satisfaction to have a job as a relationship or to be married.
Career
If you are very fixed on your career and your job go over everything, it is a clear sign that you are more of a single type. Relationships cost time, money and sometimes nerves that many career -oriented people are not willing to give. Above all, potential partners don’t always want to be in second place.
The rebels
If you hate that society presses on a norm and values such as family start -up, monogamy and marriage and that it generally does not want to be forced in schemes, this could be a clear sign that you are happier as a single.
The unable to bind
Anyone who realizes that they have a problem with fixed bonds, drags childhood trauma behind them or other things that are noticeable again and again when a connection becomes more specific should get help. This scheme of avoidance binding will probably not disappear overnight and ensures, sometimes consciously, sometimes unconsciously that you always end as a single.
So it is important that in one of the most important decisions of your life, such as founding a family, you know what kind of person you are. According to the psychologist, however, about half of all adults should have real problems with going to a permanent partnership for a long time and would rather stay single voluntarily.
Source: Stern
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